Can I work with you if I already found an adoptive family?

Exploring Your Options

If you are connected with a potential adoptive family or have worked with another adoption agency, you have the option to work with Caring for Kids to put your adoption plan in place. You have the ability to privately talk with a Birth Parent Counselor at Caring for Kids as you explore your options.  You can request to meet by calling 330-815-4907 or emailing sarah@cfkadopt.org.  Our counselors have years of experience working with expectant moms as they consider adoption. They are sensitive to individual’s unique needs and desires for privacy. Choosing to meet with a counselor does not obligate you to move forward with an adoption plan.  Should you decide to move forward with an adoption plan, we are here to support you and your plan.

 

Choosing an Adoptive Family

Regardless of your situation, you have the right to select the potential adoptive family for your child.  The Birth Parent Counselor will talk with you about your health history.  It is important to share openly about any substance use and any other details that have impacted your pregnancy.  There is no judgement, only a desire to ensure that this information is shared appropriately to help your child thrive. Also discussed are family history, social history, requests for ongoing contact (openness), and other factors that may be important to you when considering parents for your child.  Other factors may include family make up, faith, location, or other important criteria specific to you.

 

Your counselor will discuss any families you may be connected to that could potentially adopt your child.  This could be a family member or friend, a waiting adoptive family you found personally, an adoptive family you worked with previously, or waiting families with Caring For Kids that meet your requests.  You will personally select which family you feel is best for your child.  Your counselor can also facilitate a face to face visit or phone interview, if you wish, so you have the opportunity to talk with the chosen family and ensure you are comfortable with your decision.

 

Making the Adoption Legal

After the 72 hour mandated waiting period has passed, you will be able to make a final and permanent decision to proceed with adoption.  It is always possible to take more time, if needed. When the time comes to sign your legal paperwork, you will meet with your Birth Parent Counselor, as well as an attorney that will represent your needs for the adoption.  You can ask anyone to be present that may be a support to you. Once the paperwork is complete, the baby will be placed with the adoptive family.

 

What Happens Next

This is an emotional and difficult decision.  Your Birth Parent Counselor will meet with you regularly to provide counseling for grief and loss before and after birth. Regardless of your situation, we ensure you are offered these services.

 

No matter where you are in your parenting journey – pregnant or currently parenting, you can choose to explore adoption.  It is never too early or too late to call Caring for Kids and gather information.  This decision is legal and available to you. Making this decision with licensed professionals makes this a safe and legitimate option for you and your baby.

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